International LGBTQ+ travel is a multi-billion dollar industry.   Traveling and reaching across cultures is a big part of our lives, yet it does have its unique considerations and challenges. The LGBTQ+ community values safety, inclusivity, and vibrant cultural experiences when planning trips. Here are the ten things that I have noticed seem to matter most to gay travelers when choosing a destination:

1. Safety and LGBTQ+ Acceptance
It is no surprise that safety is a top priority for gay travelers. Destinations with progressive LGBTQ+ rights, such as legal protections against discrimination and recognition of same-sex relationships, are preferred. Countries with strict anti-LGBTQ+ laws or a history of intolerance are less appealing, and for many, deal-breakers. Many of us research the legal status and social attitudes toward LGBTQ+ people in a country before deciding to visit.

2. Local LGBTQ+ Community and Culture
Gay travelers often seek out destinations with a vibrant LGBTQ+ community. Cities with gay neighborhoods, like Castro in San Francisco or Chueca in Madrid, offer a sense of belonging and a variety of LGBTQ+-friendly venues, such as bars, clubs, and cafes. Engaging with local LGBTQ+ culture, attending Pride events, and supporting LGBTQ+-owned businesses are important to many of us.

3. Gay-Friendly Accommodations
Finding welcoming accommodations is crucial. Many LGBTQ+ travelers look for hotels, guesthouses, or vacation rentals that explicitly market themselves as gay-friendly. These establishments may offer special amenities, packages, or events catering to LGBTQ+ guests. The rise of LGBTQ+-focused booking platforms, travel agencies, and tour companies like mine (Zoom Vacations) also help travelers find inclusive places to stay.

4. LGBTQ+ Events and Festivals
Events like Pride parades, LGBTQ+ film festivals, and circuit parties are significant draws for gay travelers. These events provide opportunities to celebrate diversity, meet like-minded individuals, and experience local LGBTQ+ culture. Destinations known for their vibrant LGBTQ+ events, like Sydney’s Mardi Gras, São Paulo Pride, and New York City Pride, often rank high on travel lists.

5. Local Experiences and Cultural Offerings
Beyond the LGBTQ+ scene, gay travelers are interested in exploring the unique culture of a destination. Art, history, food, and outdoor adventures all play a role in creating memorable trips. Many LGBTQ+ travelers appreciate destinations that offer a mix of urban experiences and natural beauty, such as Barcelona’s bustling streets and nearby beaches or Cape Town’s vibrant city life and surrounding winelands.

6. Accessibility and Convenience
Easy access to transportation and amenities is another key factor. LGBTQ+ travelers often prefer destinations with well-developed public transportation systems, LGBTQ+ travel guides, and resources that make navigating new places straightforward and stress-free. Direct flights, visa-free entry, and LGBTQ+ tourist centers also add to the convenience of a destination.

7. LGBTQ+ History and Heritage
Destinations with rich LGBTQ+ history are particularly attractive. Visiting places like the Stonewall Inn in New York, the Schwules Museum in Berlin, or Frida Kahlo’s Casa Azul in Mexico City allows travelers to connect with the global LGBTQ+ narrative. These places offer an opportunity to learn about the struggles and achievements of LGBTQ+ individuals throughout history.

8. Inclusive Nightlife and Entertainment
A vibrant and diverse nightlife scene is often a highlight for gay travelers. Inclusive bars, clubs, and drag shows offer spaces where LGBTQ+ individuals can feel free to express themselves. Destinations like Bangkok, Berlin, London, and Buenos Aires are known for their eclectic and welcoming nightlife scenes, catering to various tastes and styles.

9. Romantic and Relaxing Destinations
For those looking for a more relaxed experience, gay-friendly destinations that offer romance and relaxation—such as serene beaches, wellness retreats, or quaint countryside escapes—are appealing. LGBTQ+-friendly resorts, spa retreats, and romantic getaway spots in places like Santorini, Mykonos, or the Maldives are increasingly popular among gay couples.  While the Maldives, as a country is certainly not the most gay friendly, I have been to over 40 resort islands within the Maldives, and all of them were gay friendly. There were gay staff working, and I saw many other gay guests.

10. Authentic Connections and Responsible Travel
Lastly, many gay travelers value authenticity and responsible tourism. This includes supporting LGBTQ+ and ally-owned businesses, engaging in meaningful interactions with locals, and being mindful of a destination’s cultural norms and practices. Ethical tourism practices, such as avoiding exploitative businesses or practices, are essential for travelers who want to make a positive impact.

For gay travelers, the ideal destination is one that offers safety, inclusivity, and a rich tapestry of experiences, from cultural immersion to vibrant nightlife. Whether seeking adventure, romance, or connection, the places that embrace diversity and celebrate the LGBTQ+ community are the ones that top the list for gay travelers worldwide.